Friday, July 31, 2009
True Relationship
In true relationship, there is no give and take. In fact, give and take does not exist. Only give and give exists.You give 100% and you take 0%. and your loved one gives 100% and takes nothing in return.The thought "What am I getting in return" does not come at all. You never look at your Balance sheet to check what you have given and what you have received. In true relationship, there is no sacrifice in giving, but there is only joy in giving. you are more concerned with the happiness of the one you love than with your own. So, in a situation like this, no one feels neglected,no one is ignored or sidetracked. The other very important thing in true relationship is absolute trust and faith in your partner. There is no place for any suspicion or doubt.If there is difference of opinion on any matter, you talk it over and sort it out rather than nursing the grudge within. You have to give a patient hearing to what your partner has to say and put across your point of view as well and arrive at a solution that works best for both of you.
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Ok dear
Well said Sir, I unquestionably agree with it. There is no give and take policy in any relationship. The more you give, the more you enjoy the peace. The more you expect, the more possessive you become!
But in today's world, especially this generation most of them don't realize the value of a relation. Sometimes it seems like one is the boss and the other is the student. One commands, and the other obeys. There seems no LOVE in most of the relationships.
All I want to convey is the one who gives is the richest of all.
I loved this post. Looking forward to read more.
It was so nice of you to read my blog. Your feedback has really encouraged me to write more of this subject
Then I think there are no true relationships today, becuase I have seen that more you give, more the other people take you for granted and a time comes when the giver feels completely disenchanted with everything.....Giving is good, but sometimes its good to take also, it brings a balance in life and some contentment also.
I beg to differ with you , Renu.
When you give out of sense of love, you don't expect anything in return. There is no sacrifice in giving. There is only joy.
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